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In
the 1990s, a psychologist named Martin Seligman led the positive psychology
movement, which placed the study of human happiness squarely at the center of
psychology research and theory.
Since
then, thousands of studies and hundreds of books have been published with the
goal of increasing well-being and helping people lead more satisfying lives.
But for over 40 years, self-reported measures of happiness have stayed stagnant
(停滞的). Such efforts to improve happiness
have been an ineffective attempt to swim against the tide, as we may actually
be programmed to be dissatisfied most of the time. Why aren't we happier?
Part
of the problem is that happiness isn't just one thing. Jennifer Hecht, a philosopher
who studies the history of happiness, proposes that we all experience different
types of happiness, which are not necessarily complementary Some types of
happiness may even conflict with one another. In other words, having too much
of one type of happiness may weaken our ability to have enough of the others.
For example, a satisfying life is built on a successful career and a good
marriage. It takes a lot of work and often requires cutting back on many of
life's pleasures. That means we can't spend one pleasant lazy day after another
in the company of good friends.
This
difficult situation becomes more confused by the way our brains process the
experience of happiness. A lot of evidence shows that most of the people
possess something called the optimistic bias. They tend to think that their
future will be better than the present.
Cognitive
psychologists have also identified something called the Pollyanna Principle. It
means that people process, rehearse and remember pleasant information more than
unpleasant information. Why the good old days seem so good is because we focus
on the pleasant stuff and tend to forget the unpleasantness. And if our past is
great and our future can be even better, then we can work our way out of the
unpleasant present.
Dissatisfaction
with the present and dreams of the future are what keep us motivated. In fact,
endless happiness would completely destroy our will. Among our earliest
ancestors, those who were perfectly content may have been left in the dust.
Recognizing
that happiness exists may help us appreciate it more when it arrives.
Furthermore, understanding that it's impossible to have happiness in all
aspects of life can help us enjoy the happiness that has touched us.
Recognizing that no one "has it all" can cut down on the one thing
that psychologists know prevents happiness: envy.