题型:任务型阅读 题类:常考题 难易度:普通
福建省龙岩市非一级达标校2018-2019学年高二上学期英语期末考试试卷
For each working person, the rarest resource is your daily time. You may feel like that you do not have enough hours in the day, only endless things to do. Of course, some of these things are not part of your job, such as other colleagues asking for your help or bosses making new demands.
How can we reasonably refuse them?
Just by doing the following three steps, you can usually make yourself and the other person comfortable while refusing them.
Listen patiently to others' requests
It's not simply hearing what the other person is saying. You have to stop what you're doing and carefully listen to what they say. The point is to let the other person see that you are willing to help, and let them understand that you've already known their needs. In this way, even if you eventually refuse them, they'll understand that you are not available, instead of not willing to help.
When we listen, we all hope that other people will come to a conclusion quickly. But when we speak, we instinctively(本能地)start from the beginning of the story. In fact, this way of speaking is not good for communication. So if you want to refuse somebody, just tell them No, and then explain the reasons why.
Provide an alternative solution
Maybe you really don't have the time to listen to the other person's request. In situations like this, don't just tell the other person that you don't have the time. For example, you may say, “Sorry, I really don't have the time right now. Is it OK if we talk tomorrow morning?” In this way, although you refuse him, he still can feel your support.
In conclusion, refusal is unavoidable, but you can choose the way to refuse. An inappropriate refusal may cause great harm to your working life.
A. Begin with conclusion when refusing.
B. Start from the beginning when refusing.
C. Even if your time is limited, it is best for you to do so.
D. Instead, you should give them a time when you would be available.
E. In addition, this willing-to-help attitude also shows leadership skills.
F. In fact, there has been a mature methodology (科学方法) for this matter since long ago.
G. An artistic refusal, on the other hand, may lead you to some unexpected benefits.
The most important thing to keep in mind when deciding to serve another is that service expects no rewards. When you expect something in return, and are not serving out of the goodness of your heart, others will notice. Sure they'll thank you. {#blank#}1{#/blank#}
When you give from your heart, the real power of service comes into play. Serving is a great opportunity to strengthen your trust and respect for another, and for them to do the same to you. Not only do you feel great about helping out, but you build your relationship with them, and they will feel more willing to help you in the future. {#blank#}2{#/blank#}
However, why is service so rarely seen these days? {#blank#}3{#/blank#} Sure, living in this day and age does not leave us much time, and the last thing people want to do is more work. I'm too busy, there's too much work, or I don't have the time, " may run through your head when you hear the word service, but the truth is the benefits are worth the sacrifice. Gandhi once said that, "The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. " {#blank#}4{#/blank#} Some ideas of places you can serve are volunteer centers, nursing homes, boys and girls clubs, and so on. You can serve people as long as you want to.
{#blank#}5{#/blank#} Although it does take some work, the benefits are more than worth the sacrifice. Not only do you feel better about making another's day a little less stressful, but you strengthen your relationship with them and they will be more willing to help you in the future.
A. It's a win-win situation. B. Service is simple. C. Overall, service and selflessly giving to others is very powerful and has many benefits. D. And they will offer you worse service. E. Service is a complex event. F. The problem is, there's always an excuse not to serve. G. But the service becomes more of a situation, "I'll do this for you if you do this for me". |
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