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福建省厦门市2020届高中毕业班英语第二次质量检查(6月)试卷
Supporting Others
We're always being told that the secret to happiness lies in helping others, Indeed, it's natural to want to support those we care about, especially if we are in a position to do so.
When we offer support, it may not always be wanted.In this case, offering support in the manner of"... if l were you, I would ." can feel like a scolding rather than support. If our support feels conditional it can feel burdensome.
When someone is trying to manage illness or a house move, just saying, "What would help you today?" can be amazingly supportive. Or, suggest what you can do for them: picking up some shopping, taking the dog for a walk. Even if it's not needed, just knowing you've been thought of can be supportive in itself.
Try to be mindful of offering support that is disabling, rather than enabling. My son, when aged five, wanted to make a cup of tea. I could see how inspiring it was to him to be able to do this. So I filled the kettle and took him through the safety measures. It felt like a huge risk but it worked. His pleasure was immeasurable. The same principle applies when we offer support that increases someone else's capacity.
Sometimes the only support that's needed is to listen without judgement.This reassures (使安心) them that someone cares enough to listen while they ground themselves. When times are tough, remember to keep things stable. Waiting until the storm has passed is all it takes.
Support often works best when it's a two-way process. It is good to know how to accept help from others as well as offer support to them.
A. Walk alongside someone and make comments.
B. Come up with a couple of ideas for your friends.
C. Ask what support is needed and provide a practical one.
D. This can often be a bigger gift than just doing it for them.
E. But we can do more by thinking about the support we offer.
F. Sometimes people arc trying to manage life in their own way.
G. Just be there, occasional while someone lets out their feeling.
A. The teacher also travelled around the country. B. All over the deserts are farms and small towns. C. This was how the first "School of the Air" started. D. These families' children cannot go to school like you. E. With the development of technology, computers are becoming popular. |
In the middle of my home country there are very large places. They are hot and dry land called deserts.
{#blank#}1{#/blank#} Families live a long way from other people. Sometimes they are the only people for thousands of kilometres. {#blank#}2{#/blank#}
About 65years ago these people found that using strong radios was a possible way for families living far away to communicate with each other. They decided they could use the radios for school. In this way, children could talk to each other like at school. {#blank#}3{#/blank#}
The children each spent about 30minutes a day on the radio. They talked to their teacher about their work and difficulties. The teacher designed some exercises and tasks based on what they learned and posted them to the children. After finishing their work, the children sent it back to their teacher to mark. {#blank#}4{#/blank#} He tried to visit each child twice each year. This was sometimes difficult. The journey was very long and could be dangerous. In addition, the school held camps once a year. The children could all meet each other and shared their learning experience.
{#blank#}5{#/blank#} The government provides families with computers so that the children can use the Internet to talk to their teachers and classmates by e-mail now. The teachers enjoy their work very much because they get to know the children and their families very well. It is an interesting way to learn, don't you think?
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