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Are you shy? If you are, you are not alone. In
fact, close to 50 percent of people are shy. Almost 80 percent of people feel
shy at some point in their lives. These days, shyness is becoming more and more
common. Now, scientists are trying to understand shyness. They have some
interesting ideas about why people are shy.
Is it possible to be born shy? Many scientists
say yes. They say 15 to 20 percent of babies behave shyly. These babies are a
little quieter and more watchful than other babies. Interestingly, these shy
babies usually have shy parents. As a result, scientists think that some
shyness is genetic.
Family size might cause people to be shy as
well. Scientists at Harvard University studied shy children. They found that 66
percent of them had older brothers and sisters. The scientists said that these
children were often bullied(欺负)by their older
brothers and sisters. As a result, they became shy. At the same time, children
with no brothers and sisters may be shy as well. Growing up alone, they often
play by themselves. They are not able to learn the same social skills as
children from big families.
You may also be shy because of where you were
born. When scientists studied shyness in different countries, they found
surprising differences. In Japan, most people said they were shy. But in Israel,
only one of three people said so. What explains the difference? One scientist
says the Japanese and Israelis have different opinions of failure. In Japan, when
people do not succeed, they feel bad about themselves. They blame(责备)themselves for their failure. In Israel, the opposite is true.
Israelis often blame failure on outside reasons, such as family, teachers, friends
or bad luck. In Israel, freedom of opinion and risk taking are strongly
supported. This may be why Israelis worry less about failure and are less shy.
For shy people, it can be difficult to make
friends, speak in class, and even get a good job. But scientists say you can
get over your shyness. They suggest trying new things and practicing
conversations. And don't forget-if you are shy, you are not the only one.