题型:任务型阅读 题类:常考题 难易度:普通
河南省商丘市2017-2018学年高二下学期英语期中九校联考试卷
Learn to control your anger
There are no easy steps to control your anger. The important thing is to allow yourself time to be better at each small step of the way.
Realize the disadvantages of anger
You often hear of people saying that it is OK to let your anger out. But it just feeds anger more as you are focused on it. Realize that you are angry and know that there is nothing positive in being angry.
Anger is just a kind of feeling. It often happens in the following situation. When you realize that it is a feeling then you know there is something you can do about it. It's not something uncontrollable.
Learn to be patient
Patience is one of the best ways to control your anger. It allows your mind to clear. You need to recognize the feeling and then step away. As you realize more, you will stay more in control.
Understand yourself
Have the wisdom to learn about yourself. Let go of your sense of what is right and wrong,should or should not. When you have the wisdom to see things for what they truly are, then your outbursts of anger will become less frequent as you practice these steps.
Will you continue to be angry even though you know these steps? But just like everything you practice, you will become more skillful at it and you will be able to control your anger better.
A. Wise decisions.
B. Recognize it as a kind of feeling.
C. Of course you will.
D. When you are angry, take a deep breath and step away.
E. We feel we are right, but we have been misunderstood.
F. You must realize that nothing good comes of being angry.
G. Go to tell one of your best friends what has happened to you.
A. Maintain eye contact. B. Instead, focus on what is being said. C. You do not have to agree on everything. D. Also, set aside other internal thinking and dialogue. E. Listening is not something that comes naturally or easily for most of us. F. Reflecting back what you've heard signals that you're attempting to understand fully. G. Remember that listening is not just to gather information and share ideas, but also to gain perspective and understanding. |
A Few Active Listening Guidelines
Listening is arguably the most important element of interpersonal communication. Our ability to listen well impacts the quality of all of our relationships, and not just at home with our family and friends—it can also affect our relationships and interactions on the job, as well as the effectiveness and quality of our work.
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①Give focused attention
Try to minimize external (外部的) distractions. Turn down the noise, and put down or step away from what you're doing if possible. {#blank#}2{#/blank#} Don't watch the clock, fidget (坐立不安) or go over your to-do list for later.
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Direct eye contact shows your attention and intention to listen. This doesn't mean stare, though. Be reasonable, but try not to let your eyes wander to whatever is going on around you.
③Reflect back
Restate, but don't repeat verbatim. Paraphrase what you think the other party is saying with responses such as: "What I'm hearing is…" or "Let me see if I'm following you…"{#blank#}4{#/blank#}
④Respond appropriately
Be open and honest in your responses. Share your thoughts, insights and feelings in a clear, but respectful and considerate manner if you disagree.
Active listening is a model for good communication. {#blank#}5{#/blank#} It takes practice to develop active listening skills, and it's a habit that has to be reinforced (加强). Remind yourself that the goal of conversation is not merely to trade words, but to truly understand what the other party is saying and to be understood in turn.
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