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浙江省杭州文渊实验初级中学2024-2025学年九年级上学期十月英语月考试题
A. You are a kind person at heart. B. You may be afraid of being impolite. C. It may close the door of communication. D. The person might be angry if you refuse him. E. Here are some common reasons why people find it hard to say "no". F. You are afraid of losing chances. |
As is well known, saying "no" is difficult. But sometimes we have to learn to say "no". To learn to say "no", we have to first understand what's stopping us.
You want to help others. You don't want to turn the person away and you want to offer help when possible, even if it may take up your time.
I was brought up under the idea that saying "no", especially to people who are older, is impolite. This thinking is common in Asian culture, where face-saving is important. It means not making others look bad or lose faces.
You fear of conflict(冲突). This might lead to an ugly conflict.Even if there isn't,there might be disagreement which might lead to bad influences in the future.
Sometimes, saying "no" means closing doors or losing chances. It may make you feel worried. For example, if you say "no" to your boss, it may influence your promotion(晋升)opportunities in the future.
It's hard to make friends if you stay at home all the time, so get out of the house and do things that will put you in touch with(接触)other people. It's easier to make friends with them when you find you like the same things as other people.
Don't be afraid to show people what you're really good at. You can talk about the things you like and do best. People will be interested in you if they, hear something interesting about you.
Look at people in your eyes when you talk to them. That way, they'll find it easier to talk to you, or people may think you're not interested in them and may stop being interested in you.
Be a good listener. Let people talk about themselves before talking about "me, me, me” You can ask people lots of questions and show that you are interested in their answers.
Try to make friends with the kind of people you really like, respect(尊敬)and admire(羡慕). You shouldn't just make friends with those people you will meet them easily. Try to be friendly with all kinds of people. That way, you'll have a bigger group of people to choose from. Then you'll be easier to make friends with other people.
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