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四川省成都市树德一高2020-2021学年高二下学期英语4月月考试卷(含听力音频)
Rejection doesn't have to be about the big stuff like not getting into your top college. Everyday situations can lead to feelings of rejection, too, like if your joke didn't get a laugh, if no one remembered to save you a seat at the lunch table, or if the person you really like talks to everyone but you. Rejection hurts. But it's impossible to avoid it altogether. The only thing we should do is to learn to handle it.. So how can you build that ability?
Be Honest About Your Feelings
If you get rejected, admit how intense your feelings are. Don't try to brush off the hurt or pretend it's not painful. Then, move on to name what you're feeling. For example: "I feel really disappointed that I didn't get chosen for the school play. I wanted it so badly and I tried so hard. I feel left out because my friends made it and I didn't.".
Examine Your Thought Soundtrack
When you are rejected, it's natural to wonder, "Why did this happen?" When you give yourself an explanation, be careful to stick to the facts. Tell yourself: "I got turned down for prom because the person didn't want to go with me." Don't tell yourself: "I got turned down because I'm not attractive" or "I'm such a loser.". Next time, if put-down thoughts start creeping into your mind, shut them down.
A rejection is a chance to consider if there are things we can work on. It's OK to think about whether there's room for improvement or if your goals were higher than your skills.. But if you approach it right, it could help nudge you in a direction that turns out to be the perfect fit for your talents, personality, and all the really great things that make you who you are.
A. Be Patient When Rejected.
B. Use Rejection to Your Advantage.
C. Sometimes a rejection is a harsh reality check.
D. The better we get at dealing with rejection, the less it affects us.
E. This kind of thinking crowds out hope and a belief in ourselves.
F. Acknowledging feelings helps you move beyond painful emotions.
G. Feeling trapped on the negative feelings can feel like living the experience over and over again.
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