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宁夏吴忠市第二中学2018届高三下学期英语高考模拟联考试卷
To forgive is a virtue, but no one has ever said it is easy. When someone has deeply hurt you, it can be extremely difficult to let go of your hate.And it can be surprisingly beneficial to your physical and mental health. People who forgive show less sadness, anger, and stress, and more hopefulness, according to a recent research.
How should you start to forgive? Try the following steps:
Calm yourself.You can take couple of breaths, and think of something that gives you pleasure: a beautiful scene in nature, or someone you love.
Don't wait for an apology. Many times the person who hurt you does not intend to apologize. They may have wanted to hurt you or they just don't see things the same way. If you wait for people to apologize, you could be waiting an awfully long time. Keep in mind that forgiveness does not necessarily mean becoming friends again with the person who upset you.
Take the control away from your offender(冒犯者). Rethinking about your hurt gives power to the person who caused your pain. Instead of focusing on your wounded feelings, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you.
If you understand your offender, you may realize that he or she was acting out or unawareness, fear; and even love. You may want to write a letter to yourself from your offender's point of view.
Don't forget to forgive yourself.But it can rob you of your self-confidence if you don't do it.
A. Why should you forgive?
B. However forgiveness is possible
C. Recognize the benefits of forgiveness
D. Try to see things from your offender's angle
E. For some people, forgiving themselves is the biggest challenge
F. To make your anger die away, try a simple stress-management technique
G. Many times the person who hurt you does not intend to apologize
A. Sometimes you may need advice on breaking bad habits from other people. B. First, you may ask yourself how you feel about a habit. C. You may come up with a plan to break your bad habits. D. Meanwhile, keep a diary of the bad habits you desire to change. E. Sometimes the truth hurts. F. Otherwise there is an empty space in your life where the bad habit could go back. G. There are times when it can be difficult to identify your bad habits. |
While it is important to maintain good habits, it is equally important to learn how to break bad habits if you want to achieve success in life. Here are some tips to get you started.
The first step in breaking bad habits is to identify them. Only after identifying them can you decide to do something about them. {#blank#}1{#/blank#} For example, you may ask yourself: Is the habit holding me back from achieving my goal? Does the habit make me feel good or bad?
{#blank#}2{#/blank#} Then you may listen to the things that people say about you. Are people saying the same negative things about you? It's easy to become defensive when someone says something about us we don't like, and let's face it. {#blank#}3{#/blank#}
Once you have identified your bad habits, it's time to break them. First, you should introduce something new and meaningful in your life to replace the bad habit. {#blank#}4{#/blank#} If you hung around at the bars after work, replace it by going to the gym instead. Or if you sat and watched TV for hours, you may work on a task that needs to be done.
{#blank#}5{#/blank#} Write down the efforts you make to change them, and also the results of your actions. And write down how you feel when you successfully change one of your bad habits. If you can read and reflect on how you feel about the progress you've made, it may motivate you to continue to work on changing other things.
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