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高中英语人教版选修七Unit 5 Travelling abroad同步练习
The Open Hand — a Universal Sign
When meeting people at the airport, We know that a smile is usually a sign that people feel friendly and happy, but what if we don't know who the new person is? What if we are meeting a stranger in an unfamiliar place? Sometimes people are dangerous and humans have to find ways to protect themselves. We have to make sure we can trust people we do not know, Showing our hands means that we are not armed(武装). In many cultures today, the Western custom of shaking hands is used. We use our right hand, which is usually stronger than the left one. If we are using our hand this way, it cannot be holding a knife or a gun. It shows that we trust the other person,
Not all cultures use the handshake, Japanese people might cover one hand with the other and, depending on whom they are greeting, bow slightly or quite low. In India, Hindu people join their hands in front of their faces and bow their heads. A Muslim will touch his heart, mouth and forehead(前额)to show respect. Even young people in the West now give each other the “high five”, when they slap(拍)each other's hands high in the air. They are all keeping their hands busy. In almost all cultures, to smile and show an open right hand means, “Welcome, you are safe with me.”
A. What if I want to show that I am bored?
B. most people smile and shake hands with people they meet.
C. and that the other person can trust us.
D. What if we are not introduced by a friend?
E. and people in many Asian cultures do not always touch another person.
F. and we have to show that we are not dangerous.
G. nor are they comfortable in the same way with touching or distance between people.
How to live with someone in chronic pain?
Do you know that 100 million people in the United States suffer with chronic(慢性的)pain? Living with someone in chronic pain can be demanding at times because the person doesn't feel well and wants your help to feel better. Yet you are powerless to do much about stopping their pain. As a result, much of the relationship can become focused on pain which is depressing for both of you. But people in pain need emotional support. They need to know that you understand their feelings. So, express it in your words and show it by your presence.
Now, realize, there is a fine line between helping and hurting when talking with people in chronic pain. You help by encourage pain free talk, by focusing on tfie positives of your relationship and other aspects of the person's life. Instead of asking, "How is your pain today?" ask, "How is your day going?" Then, focus on what is going right or is positive despite the pain. This isn't ignoring the reality of their pain, rather focusing away from the pain. Constant conversations about pain increase pain. The more attention you give pain, the more it multiplies pain.
The more you do things for the person in pain, the more likely they are to become disabled by their pain. For example, if your partner can move, get up or get their own drink, let them. Even if it takes a while to accomplish something, movement is good for chronic pain. The goal is not to do things they can do for themselves. Otherwise, you are enabling sick behavior. Therefore, encourage, but don't enable! You don't want anyone's identity to be developed around the pain.
Remember, chronic pain has caused your partner to limit his behavior and not do the things he used to do. He is dealing with loss and has to find a new normal. Talk about what can be done to improve functioning despite the pain. You may have to get creative! Can you throw a ball to the grandkids sitting down? Maybe you can find a more comfortable position for closeness.
Finally, do all you can to help him remain social even though the pain may lead to a cancellation with friends now and then. When that happens, you are supposed to keep inviting him to gatherings as he wants to remain active and involved. The worse thing a person in pain can do is get separated from others. Not only will they become depressed but it is much easier to lose hope. And there is so much you can do to improve functioning and get on with your life.
In sum, chronic pain can cause relationship tension, but a focus on small things that turn down the volume on pain and improve your day to day functioning will help your relationships.
How to live with someone in chronic pain? |
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The phenomenon about people in chronic pain |
There are a large number of people {#blank#}1{#/blank#}from chronic pain. We need to show our understanding by keeping them {#blank#}2{#/blank#}. |
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When it {#blank#}4{#/blank#}to chronic pain, pay more {#blank#}5{#/blank#}to the positives and what is going right instead of focusing on the pain itself. {#blank#}6{#/blank#}them to move as much as they can instead of enabling sick behaviors. Keep their loss in mind and help them to find a new way to improve functioning in {#blank#}7{#/blank#}of the pain. Even if he may cancel gatherings {#blank#}8{#/blank#}, try to keep a person in pain active and involved. |
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By focusing on small useful things and improving day to day functioning, we will live in {#blank#}10{#/blank#}with someone in chronic pain. |
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