People from different{#blank#}1{#/blank#}have different body language．Here is something about it．

    First，how close do you stand when{#blank#}2{#/blank#}with a friend?You can stand close

to people in the Middle East，but you should give North Americans more personal space．

    Second，how about{#blank#}3{#/blank#}people.Chinese girls often walk arm in arm with their Mends，but many{#blank#}4{#/blank#}people don't like others to do so．

    Third,do you look at people when talking?In the UK and the US，it's polite to do so．

    Fourth，how do you say goodbye?Be careful in Greece．It's very{#blank#}5{#/blank#}to wave goodbye．

    On the day of the interview, I got up at 6:00 in the morning. I got to the interview place without {#blank#}1{#/blank#} breakfast. I was the 16th interviewer(应聘者) and the {#blank#}2{#/blank#} was a short ordinary - looking girl. I noddedto her. I asked her where she graduated. "I didn't graduate from a famous college," she told me {#blank#}3{#/blank#} a low voice.

    I didn't expect the interview would last so long. As I didn't have breakfast, my stomachache came to me. I had to sit by the table for a rest. Just at that time, the girl came and asked me what happened. I told her, "I didn't have {#blank#}4{#/blank#} this morning, so I had a stomachache."

    After a while, a worker came in and {#blank#}5{#/blank#} me a bottle of milk and a piece of bread. It was certain that they were bought by the girl. I felt warm all over my heart because I hadn't imagined she would be so nice to help me--her rival (竞争对手)

    Luckily, I {#blank#}6{#/blank#} the job. The first day I went to work, I was {#blank#}7{#/blank#} to see the girl there. She also got the job. Later I asked her why she got the job. She said with a smile. "That day when I bought you the food and came back, an interviewer saw me and asked {#blank#}8{#/blank#} I took the food in hands. I told him the truth. Then I got the job. " At that {#blank#}9{#/blank#} ,I came to know that when the girl helped me and the interviewer, she also helped {#blank#}10{#/blank#}.

    Helping others will benefit yourself as well.

Deal with conflict(冲突)

    Losing friends is as easy as making friends if you don't know how to deal with anger and conflict. Conflict is part of everyone's {#blank#}1{#/blank#}. It will show up at school, at work and at home. It's OK to feel angry, annoyed(恼怒的)or sad. These feelings are {#blank#}2{#/blank#}, but different people deal with {#blank#}3{#/blank#}in different ways. Some people shout, call people names, or even hit the person who has {#blank#}4{#/blank#}them. Others do their best to keep away from dissension(纠纷)but very few deal with conflict {#blank#}5{#/blank#}.

    Dealing with conflict is a step-by-step progress. {#blank#}6{#/blank#} you start talking about the problem, calm down, count to 10 and imagine a relaxing {#blank#}7{#/blank#}. Then, say what is really bothering(使烦恼)you, but watch how you express yourself. Don't complain. Share {#blank#}8{#/blank#} you feel by using". For example, don't say "You are always ordering me to do this or to do that," but "I feel sad {#blank#}9{#/blank#} you don't pay attention to what I think." You want people to {#blank#}10{#/blank#} your opinion so make sure you practice what you want to say. Listen carefully to the other person and accept that he or she might see the problem in a different way.

    Be open minded and willing to say sorry.