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Questions you should ask yourself when you fail
Let's face it.We all fail.The more new things we try the more failures we are likely to have.Experiencing failure can be a learning experience and an opportunity for a fresh start. A good way to begin this process is by asking yourself some tough questions.
1.What can I learn from this?
Take responsibility for what went wrong.OK,so it was not all your fault—but some of it was.Successful people don't make excuses or blame others. Be critical but constructive.Try to look at the experience objectively.Make a list of the key things that happened.Analyze the list step-by-step and look for the learning points.
2.Do I need to acquire or improve some skills?
Did the problem reveal some lack of skill on your part? How could you learn or improve those skills? Perhaps there are books or courses or people you could turn to.
3.Who can I learn from?
Is there someone whom you can turn to for advice? Did a boss,colleague or a friend see what happened? Most people do not ask for help because they believe it to be a sign of weakness rather than strength.It's not.It shows that you are ready to learn and change.Any good friend will be happy to help.
4.What will I do next?
Will you try something similar or something different? Revisit your goals and objectives.This reversal has been a setback on your journey but think of it as a diversion rather than a halt.You can now reset your sights on your destination and plan a new course.
A.Now draw up an action plan.
B.Make them stepping stones to future success.
C.They take responsibility of the failure.
D.In fact the only way to avoid failure is to do nothing new.
E.The important thing is how we deal with failure.
F.Make a self-development plan to acquire the skills and experiences you need.
G.If they are constructive and supportive then ask them for some feedback and guidance.
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