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My
name is Jack. When my family moved to America in 2014 from a small village in
Guangdong, China, we brought not only our luggage, but also our village rules,
customs as well as culture. One of the rules is that young people always
respect elders. This rule, unfortunately, led to my very first embarrassment in
America.
I had
a part-time job as a waiter in a Chinese restaurant. One time, when I was
serving food to a middle-aged couple, the wife asked me how the food could be
served so quickly. I told her that I had made sure they got their food quickly
because I always respect the elderly. As soon as I said that, her face showed
great displeasure. My manager, who happened to hear what I said, took me aside
and gave me a long lecture about how sensitive Americans are and how they
dislike the description "old". I then walked back to the table and
apologized to the wife. After the couple heard my reason, they understood that
the problem was caused by cultural differences, so they laughed and were no
longer angry.
In my
village, however, people are proud of being old. Not so many people live to be
seventy or eighty, and people who reach such an age have the most knowledge and
experience. Young people always respect older people because they know they can
learn from their rich experience.
However,
in the United States, people think "growing old" is a problem since "old"
shows that a person is going to retire or that the body is not working well. Here
many people try to keep themselves away from growing old by doing exercises or
jogging, and women put on makeup, hoping to look young. When I told the couple
in the restaurant that I respect the elderly, they got angry because this
caused them to feel they had failed to stay young. I had told them something
they didn't want to hear.
After
that, I changed the way I had been with senior citizens. It is not that I don't
respect them anymore; I still respect them, but now I don't show my feelings
through words.