题型:概要写作 题类:模拟题 难易度:困难
浙江省丽水市2019届高三英语5月模拟测试试卷(含小段音频)
"Helicopter parents" is a description of parents who are hovering over their children in a state of extreme concern. They always show up to solve their children's problems, protect them from real or imagined harm, resolve stressful situation, offer advice and get them out of trouble, even if they misbehaved. Although out of love and concern, it can have harmful effect on their children's emotional development and future autonomy.
Children learn through their mistakes. But if you intervene (介入) at first sign of struggle and finish your child's homework, he'll miss out on valuable learning opportunities. You're sending him the message that he needs to be perfect and failure is not an option, otherwise you wouldn't always take over for him.
By constantly rescuing your child from stressful situation, you're sending him a message that you don't believe he's capable of taking care of himself. Children develop self-esteem by learning how to complete challenge on their own. If you are always intervening, he's denied this vital stage in his growth. As a result, your child may lack the confidence necessary to do well in school, pursue hobbies and interests, and develop friendships.
If you're always taking care of everything for your child, it'll be more difficult for him to become independent. As an adult, he might find it hard to take care of himself, because he's never developed coping skills to deal with life's challenges. He might suffer from irrational fears, anxiety and depression, which could lead him to drop out of college or frequently change jobs, according to Dr. Michele Borba. Instead of developing healthy relationships, he might seek a partner who will take care of him or controlling, as his parents were.
You can help your child become more independent by allowing him to complete tasks and challenges on his own without your intervention. Even if he fails at first don't interfere—encourage him to start again. Show that you have faith in his abilities to succeed without your help. Allow him to learn natural consequences. Even small things can help him become more independent—making his own bed, preparing his own lunch, shopping for his own clothes and doing homework without your help.
假如你是李华,你的美国笔友Mike, 即将随其父母来中国,并在中国度过春节,他来信向你询问有关春节的习俗。请你根据下表提供的信息给他写封回信,告诉他有关春节的习俗以及你们家通常是怎么过春节的。词数不少于60字。信的开头已给出。
要点如下:
The Spring Festival | |
Time | on the first day of the lunar year |
Reason | drive a demon(怪兽), named Nian away |
Activities | put on couplets(对联) receive lucky money set off firecrackers |
Dear Mike,
I'm glad to know that you are coming to China with your parents and spend the Spring Festival here.……
Yours,
Li Hua.
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