Dear Abby,

    I'm a helpless mother. My son Tom is 15 years old. I find that the older he (grow), the less we talk. I feel very sad and I (real) need help.

    My first problem is about his hobbies. He spends almost all his spare time computer games. When he gets home, he always turns on the computer and closes the door. I'm getting (worry) about him, (especial) when his English teacher tells me he always gets low (mark) in the English exams.

    , he likes new technology, but I don't have enough money and I can't (afford) all the things he wants. Recently, I've (find) that he is always alone. I've never seen him talking to his friends on the phone or going out with anyone on weekends.    What should I do to help him? Please give me some advice.

helpless mother