A young painter completed a nice picture. To get people's t about his skills, he put it at a crossing on a busy street. And below it a board read, “Gentlemen, I have painted this piece. S I'm new, I might make some mistakes in it. Please put a cross (叉号) wherever you see a mistake.”

    When he came back in the evening to c his picture, he was shocked to see that the whole picture was filled with crosses. And some people e wrote something on his picture. Sadly, he ran to his master and said, “I failed. And if this is what I have learned, I'm not wteaching. ”

    The master smiled and suggested, “I'll let you know that you're a great artist. Now go to paint the same picture again and give it to me. ”

    Then they went to the same street the next morning and put the new picture exactly at the same place. Now the master took out another b  which said, “Gentlemen, I painted this piece. There might be some mistakes in it. I have put a box with colors and brushes just below. Please give me a h . If you see a mistake, pick up the brush and correct it.”

    Two days later, they came back to the place. The young painter was s to see that actually there was not a single correction done!

    It's easy to say but difficult to do. If you want to help people itheir behavior, you'd better learn how to help people change their attitudes (态度) or skills. Also, always remember not to judge (评 判) yby someone else's words and feel bad two homes.