阅读下面材料,在空白处填入适当的单词(1个单词)或括号内单词的正确形式。 Many couples are quite puzzled about this question.How can lovers be devoted to each other for long? Actually, they just complain about their marriage to their partners all the time,not{#blank#}1{#/blank#}(know) how to deal with the marriage crisis.
“Before we were{#blank#}2{#/blank#}(marry),my husband was a caring man,“a wife once told me.“It seemed that he would love me till the end of the world.Since we got married,he{#blank#}3{#/blank#}(become) a lazy bone.He watches ball games more than he watches me.He has changed so much that I can{#blank#}4{#/blank#}(hard) bear him.”
“Very funny,”answered the husband.“But have you looked at yourself lately?Several years ago,you were very beautiful.Now you wear that old dress.If I've changed from{#blank#}5{#/blank#}energetic man to a lazy one,then you've changed yourself from a{#blank#}6{#/blank#}(beauty) lady to an ugly one.”This hurtful but childish{#blank#}7{#/blank#}(argue) shows how couples, instead of looking for love,may look for all the{#blank#}8{#/blank#}(fault) that his/her partner has in their daily life.
Honestly speaking,how we see our partners often depends more{#blank#}9{#/blank#}how we are than how they are.It is a way of seeing.Husbands and wives are not audience{#blank#}10{#/blank#}participant observers in each other's life.Remember that the law of lasting love is to look at your lover with love.